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Jennifer Lopez And Shakira Headlining The Super Bowl Is A Big Win For Women And Latin Americans

The world is going to be set on fire.

Let’s be honest here, there are only two reasons why 100+ million people tune in to watch the Super Bowl: the crazy ads and the big name music acts performing at the halftime show.

For the 2020 event, we’re getting what may be one of the greatest halftime show headlining acts in Super Bowl history: Jennifer Lopez and Shakira.

The pair made the announcement with a series of teasing, slow-burn tweets and Instagram posts before culminating in a winning shot of J-Lo and Shakira (and a massive Pepsi logo because they’re the halftime show’s main sponsor).

Words can’t do justice just how big of a deal it is. The last two Super Bowl halftime shows – Maroon 5 in 2019 and Justin Timberlake in 2018 – didn’t exactly set the world alight and there’s no doubt J-Lo and Shakira will put on a hell of a better show, especially since they actually seem super stoked to be there.

But more importantly than wiping the floor with Maroon 5 and Justin Timberlake, J-Lo and Shakira represent a big representation win for women and the Latin American community.

There have only been two Latin performers – Gloria Estefan and Enrique Iglesias – to take the Super Bowl halftime show when it became a thing in the 60s, making J-Lo and Shakira’s headlining act pretty historic. In just one show, the number of Latin performers will double.

While there have been female artists – like Lady Gaga and Beyoncé – who have headlined the Super Bowl halftime show, there has never been two massive female performers like J-Lo and Shakira sharing the stage as co-headlining acts.

All in all, the 2020 halftime show is shaping up to not only be an epic romp but also a huge representation victory that will hopefully open the door for more diverse artists.

Oh, there’s a possibility Pitbull may rock up for a cameo since the 2020 Super Bowl will take place at Miami’s Hard Rock Stadium, but we’ll cross that bridge when we get to it.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go listen to ‘On the Floor’ and ‘Loba’ back-to-back on repeat as preparation for the J-Lo and Shakira extravaganza (aka the 2020 Super Bowl).

Married At First Sight Shows There’s More To Learn About Consent

"Take your bra off! Let it hang!"

Amanda and Tash have had a really hard time connecting with each other. We could’ve put it down to Amanda’s fiery personality or Tash’s dating history, but the first commitment ceremony was full of red flags.

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In the commitment ceremony, there was one particular interaction that had us shocked and it’s when Amanda said: “If it were up to me, we probably would have slept together by now.”

Now, we all know that consent requires everyone involved in the situation to give an enthusiastic ‘yes’, and Tash hasn’t given any indication that she wants to be that intimate with Amanda. In fact, it was the opposite. 

Tash actually described in detail how her feelings evolved from initial attraction to lack thereof, saying: “I was acting a certain way at the wedding and now my body language changed and she’s really intuitive and I knew she could pick it up. I wish I felt burning, strong, firey chemistry, I wish I did, but I’m not going to bullshit it.”

And Amanda knew this, but it didn’t stop Tash from blaming herself for the whole saga. She said: “I hurt her, but I was honest. I feel like I ruined the honeymoon, really, and it was pretty hard to recover from it and it drove a big wedge between us.”

Also, it didn’t help that Amanda cornered her wife, in front of 21 other people, outlining her lack of intimacy in their relationship, saying: “Quality time for me is watching a movie together… We didn’t watch a single movie together…  I’m talking away from the public… I’m talking in the room, with no one around, like your walls down, our PJ’s are on and we’re just our complete selves, our bras are literally off, and we’re enjoying each other’s company… Take your bra off! Let it hang! Do you know what I mean?” 

So, essentially we have a situation with an abundance of issues. Tash feels like she’s in the wrong because she isn’t feeling the same feelings as her partner and Amanda feels the need to vocalise what she would have done if she was “calling the shots.” Newsflash, it’s not “calling the shots” if one member of the relationship is not up for the intimacy. 

So unless Tash changes her mind, falls in love with Amanda and begin in something more than a friendship, the bras stay on.

If you haven’t done your MAFS homework, make sure you catch up on previous lessons. So far, we’ve learnt about gaslighting, why adults still need supervision, to never force chemistry, to not make a fool of yourself when there are cameras aroundhow to meet people in a socially acceptable way and also how crappy friends can ruin a relationship.

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Joey From ‘10 Things I Hate About You’ Is A Cult Leader IRL And I Can’t Cope

I guess the tube sock ad didn't work out.

Remember Joey Donner from everyone’s favourite 90s flick 10 Things I Hate About You? He was the OG f*ckboy and every parent’s worst nightmare – but in real life, he’s apparently a cult leader who got done for illegally selling kombucha.

According to Marie Claire, Andrew Keegan – who played Joey in the film –  is the co-founder of “California spiritual community” Full Circle, where he “passionately seeks to inspire and empower the community to co-create a better world.”

Apparently, in his role Keegan is often referred to as a “guru” and “promotes organic experiences within the temple, including hand-holding, group meditation, spooning, crystals, candles and ‘soul medicine.’” Full Circle even has a pet parrot called Krishna, reflecting the religion’s Hindu influence.

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In a 2014 article, Vice characterised Full Circle as a “new religion,” however publications including Jezebel have labelled it a cult. In a 2015 interview with Keegan, Lauren Bans of New York Magazine wrote, “the actual theology of the group is tough to in down, but it seems to loosely follow Hinduism – or at least Russell Brand’s Sanskrit-tattoo version of it.”

If all this hadn’t blown your mind enough, in 2015, Keegan was reportedly raided by California’s Department of Alcohol Beverage Control for “illegally selling Kombucha that wasn’t labelled alcoholic.”

“Kombucha is something we’d never imagine to be an illegal substance, and it’s frustrating the system has that perspective,” Keegan said. “We’re certainly taking full responsibility. We try to put our best foot forward.”

According to Vice, Keegan’s “spiritual transformation” came from a traumatic experience in 2011 when he and two friends were attacked by gang members in Venice Beach. “The significance of this occurrence is that it happened at the same time the tsunami hit Japan,” he said, relating the incident to a series of events and “weird coincidences.”

Sounds like Keegan’s current life is a far cry from his days as semi-professional tube sock model Joey Donner, but whatever floats your boat, right?

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