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Bachelor In Paradise Proves That The Bro Code Isn't A Scapegoat For Toxic Masculinity

Seriously, bro?

Bachelor In Paradise a space where people’s emotions and behaviours are amplified – good and bad. It toes the line of entertaining and uncomfortable far too often, but sometimes it falls over that line in a spectacularly awful way.

The men on Bachelor In Paradise have proven time and time again that they’re going to support each other regardless of the situation, and whether they’re in the right or not.

Unfortunately, the dudes on Bachelor In Paradise are actually enabling some really toxic behaviour amongst each other and it’s seriously making it super hard to watch without throwing something at the screen.

If the guys were actually responsible for their own actions, maybe they could learn from them, but because when one of them has a problem and they confide in one of the other guys who gives straight-up awful advice, they think they’re in the right.

When Tenille pumped the breaks with Ivan after he was being abnormally obsessive and possessive, after only SIX DAYS of knowing each other, Ivan had a full-on meltdown.

After confiding in resident idiot Bill (who gave the worst advice), Ivan was rejuvenated and truly thought that this was just a hiccup in his and Tenille’s relationship. In some really twisted dialogue, Ivan managed to turn himself into a victim and justify his behaviour, thanks to Bill’s unwavering support.

Bros, you need to open your eyes.

There’s a difference between being there for your mate and filling his head with delusions that could potentially be really very damaging to everyone involved.

This solidifies that women are better at being there for each other than guys ever will be.